It is a pretty dick thing to do. But you cant easily break up a band made of friends, somewhere along the lines something bad will happen. Than again you do live away from them...

Wish your buddies good luck and mean it.

go solo like John Mayer and fuck dem nigs.

[quote="Short Hand":08801]go solo like John Mayer and fuck dem nigs.[/quote:08801]

i fucking LOL

That sucks man, but if you think about it, it's probably in their best interest. I mean, as you said, you are away from them for the majority of the year. It seems pretty impractical to me, but at the same time, I can completely understand why it's such a huge "bummer."

go on a drinking binge... that'll show 'em

Go listen to linkin park in a dark room and cry yourself to sleep. "its always me, never one of them.... boo hoo wahh wahh". Perhaps its you and not them because there not hundreds of miles away... Hmmmm. You wernt even in the band, because you were never there, you cut yourself out of it. They wernt going to tell you because theres nothing to tell. You were in the band about as much as that scary groupy chick at that dank bar who was always to drunk and hitting on anything that moved.


Now that... Thats venting.

or we ALL go to different colleges and the only one that actually lives at home is the bassist...

I stand by my go cry in a corner statments. Although someone did suggest a drinking binge, i also fully support that option.

Ask them why? or go get drunk...and get over it.

That is relatively shitty of them. I mean, if it's not working out with you, then so be it, but they at least owe you the courtesy of telling you to your face.

Post an ad locally and I'm sure you'll find others to jam with. Hey, once the other guys have played around without you, they might realize that you WERE the better guitar player and want you back.

You never know.