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Originally Posted by Madmartagen

Oh man what a night. I asked her out after work, not really a date, but just to hang out. It was the first time we hung out after work and so we went out to eat and went to barnes&noble and just talked for like 4 hours and read books. While we were looking around, i kept brushing by her on purpuse when i would walk around her and my hand touched her hand a couple of times, but she didnt say anything about it. Then we went to see the matrix movie at around 11 at night and we went out for some coffee afterwards. we basically hang out all night long talking about relationships and stuff like that. she hasnt had a real relationship in quite some time and she has gone out with some total A holes in the past. after that we started driving around yorba linda and fullerton and the hills over there and she finally put her hand on mine. when i took her home to her house she invites me in. she lives in a townhome by herself, so it was cool that no hairy wildebeasts would attack us there. we started slow dancing and weird stuff like that, cause i dont dance, so i just made circles around the carpet basically. after a couple of minutes of awkwarness, we started watching some gay ass foreign film that didnt have any sex at all. it was ok with me, bucause i was just thinking about this woman the whole time. she makes a 'move' by turning her back towards me and basically sits/lays down with her back on my chest and puts my arms around her, so i am craddling her while im sitting on the couch. i almost had a freakin heart attack there and i made a stupid noise with my mouth because i was so excited about it. during the most boring part of the movie and after some more awkward silence she looks up at me and i just close my eyes and go for it, aiming a kiss at her mouth and hoping to God i dont get her eye. i pulled back after a second or so to see a reaction from her and she moves in and kisses me too. so we started making out all night long and i spent the night with her on the couch. we didnt do anything other than kiss, but thats okay with me.

So everything went great guys, thanks for the advice and giving in your cents. im going to see her again tonight and i have no expectations. she isnt acting weird at work so far, in fact she walks by my cube more often now. i just hope she likes video games. woot! anyways, no one else noticed that we showed up to work together and left last night together either. thanks again for the advice and ill let you guys know if i am unexpectedly fired from my job.

cool: beer:

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one of the best posts evA! makes me wanna cry cry:
Good job man!!

Now's the time to place your bets on how long it will take for him to get some PUNANI rock:

:::::::::: OK I say 4 days ::::::::::::::

ok....yeah.... eek: gj on gettin a girl...um how long has it been since youve had a relationship? I mean honestly. you were excited when she had you hold her during a movie....I dont know what to say.....um.....god damn....I so wanna make fun of you but I cant. OH I KNOW Glad it worked out. I tried at one girl told her more about me than IVe ever told anyone and....it got no where but a movie and a good night. then a turn down. so glad it worked out...... beer:

[quote="mr.miyagi":32d99][Now's the time to [u]place your bets [/u]on how long it will take for him to get some PUNANI rock:

:::::::::: OK I say [b]4[/b] days ::::::::::::::[/quote:32d99]

lol!! look out for mr romance here!

[quote="Unknown_Sniper"]ok....yeah.... eek: gj on gettin a girl...um how long has it been since youve had a relationship? I mean honestly. you were excited when she had you hold her during a movie

The last relationship I had lasted for a couple of years and she ended it allmost a year ago. she meant alot to me, and so i havent gone out or done anything with another woman since. That, and being an authoritive figure at work made me a little jumpy when she suddenly transformed from a sexy boss to a woman who wanted to cuddle with me. Life is good so far, dudes. im going out with her again in a few minutes.

beer:

I bet he will get some tonight.

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Originally Posted by wintersforge

You dont shit where you eat....i hope things pan out for ya fella... eek:

Heh, I always said you should have a honey where you make your money. At least at a real job.

But then again, I met my wife while working with her when I was bartending. That job was golden.

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Originally Posted by pest

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Originally Posted by wintersforge

You dont shit where you eat....i hope things pan out for ya fella... eek:

Heh, I always said you should have a honey where you make your money. At least at a real job.

But then again, I met my wife while working with her when I was bartending. That job was golden.

im not clear on his professional aspirations or how much this job means to him oOo: but if this is a career he loves and a palce where he wants to remain in the long run, this could make things a bit more.......complicated. if the relationship goes south, and with her in a position of power this could cause him some problems. but then again if he doesnt really care about the job past the paycheck then bang out the whole fucking office.... rock:

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Originally Posted by wintersforge

I agree. I had my rule, but broke it when it was bartending and waiting jobs. Once I got into a professional career, that type of thing came to an end. There is a lady I work with having some serious issues for a work fling right now. We all gotta make our own decisions, but we should also be aware of the possible consequences.

Hey mad, can we get some pics of her??

I'm working on that one now, but i dont have a digicam yet. ill try to do an artists rendering of her and post it soon. how do i post pics here anyways? ive tried to post pics before and they never loaded right. you basically put them on a website and insert the URL, right?

bah, ill just ask her for a pic of herself.

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Originally Posted by Madmartagen

once you get it hosted yes, and then use the [img]url%20here[/img] command thats it

Second date was awesome guys. Went to disneyland for free cause my friend works there, but he was in shock that i showed up with a taller, older, and strikingly beautiful woman. He has never met her before, and now the realization that i have to explain this to my roommates (parents) is settling in. I think its prolly too early to introduce her to my family because we have only been seeing eachother for a few days now. anyways disneyland was great because you can just be yourself there without worrying about running into any of my coworkers there. as such, we were able to hold hands the entire time and make out in the haunted mansion. it was kind of unusual in the sense that some people did stare at us because we are so disproportional to eachother. oh well, how many guys can say their face reaches up to their womans tits? beer: oh yeah baby. im working on getting a picture of her, i just havent asked for one. i dont think plastering her face on the net is the best idea at this time anyway. i dont want her to think im a freakin stalker or anything. well i dont want her to know. so far we have limited our physical activity to just messing around, but its good to take things as they come. hey miyagi whats the pot up to now, i still have two days right??

LOL!
gg Madmartagen happy:

ill trade you, a pic of your woman for a pic of my woman

lol jk

unless you wanna wink:

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