A Question of Morals
 

Is it ok to go out with a friend's ex? if not, why, and if so, how long should you leave it?

It all depends. How long have they been broken up? If they just broke up No way. gotta remember Bro's before Ho's

one question you have to ask yourself:
would he do it to you?

I have a friend that resents the fact i married his old GF. He dated her 18 years before we went out she was married and divorced in the time between. Some people have hard heads. I asked what the statute of limitations was for women but didnt get a reply. I am glad I made my choice and dont give a flying f**k what he says

I guess if it was like after a peoid of 5 years or something. But anything less than 2 years is a no-no in my book.

It depends on too many different factors, but in general I would say no. Need more details to give a realistic answer. But woody is right, it she worth lossing a friend over?

Well she'll eventually cheat on you and suck off 5 other guys while you're dating her, so its not worth it.

You just don't do that, it's just not right, don't break a friendship.

[quote="Chronic Diarrhea":047ca]Well she'll eventually cheat on you and suck off 5 other guys while you're dating her, so its not worth it.[/quote:047ca]
If she does you can always do her mom evil:

Ah, that was a funny movie

i wouldnt do it

If it's a very close (best) friend, I agree with Joe. If it is just another friend you hang out with sometimes...a few months might be enough. The friend also has to understand how to game works...

If it's a very close (best) friend, I agree with Joe. If it is just another friend you hang out with sometimes...a few months might be enough. The friend also has to understand how the game works...

Why can't you just fuck her behind his back?

Don't they call that a threesome?

Wouldn't he notice?

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If hes your best friend-no

If he still likes her-no

if he wants to coherse her into the sack before you get her-no

if its none of those go ahead

As we all know, AA.com is full of liscenced sex therapists. You should trust our opinion 100%.

Yes, it's a delicate situation alright....my advice would be, until you have
properly gauged your friends and the young ladies real feelings....only put it halfway in.

Yes, it's a delicate situation alright....my advice would be, until you have
properly gauged your friends and the young ladies real feelings....only put it halfway in.

id say give it a period of 8 boyfriends or 1 year, unless the friend is really bent on her then drop it like its hot

It depends on a number of factors:

*How long did they go out?

*How much did he like her?

*How much do you like her?

*How much do you like him as a mate?

*How would you feel in his position?

*Would he do the same to you?

Use those and sort it out for yourself - Unless someone understands the situation fully, we really can't help you.

Re: A Question of Morals
 

[quote="Captain Wilkins":88aa0]Is it ok to go out with a friend's ex? if not, why, and if so, how long should you leave it?[/quote:88aa0]

ZEES IS BREAKING BIG RULE. DO IT AND GOD CURSE YOU WITH BROKEN PENIS, CONFUSIOUS SAY.

Re: A Question of Morals
 

[quote=Noctis]ZEES IS BREAKING BIG RULE. DO IT AND GOD CURSE YOU WITH BROKEN PENIS, CONFUSIOUS SAY.[/quote:d9402]

CONFUICOUS SAY HIT IT AND QUIT IT!

More Details...
 

OK, the details are as follows; (going mostly by Trippers questions)
*They went out for 2 years
*He liked her a whole heap
*I like her a whole heap
*He's a pretty good guy
*I think i'd be ok with us going out (My last gf broke up with me, then went out with another one of my mates after 2 days...baptism of fire oOo: . The Girl and I have waited 2 and a half months and counting.)
*Yes, he would do the same to me.

Also, as a matter of interest, he has recently gone quite...odd, and amongst other things, sworn off women entirely. Thus i think he would feel pity that i was in love more than anything ed:

so, yeah...that's my quandry

Just ask the mofo if it's cool or not....sheesh.

What do you guys think about stealing gf's? I just recently hooked up with this girl and she was apperently in an 8 month (unhealthy)relationship.

[quote="[DAS REICH]Unknown_Sniper":a3889]What do you guys think about stealing gf's? I just recently hooked up with this girl and she was apperently in an 8 month (unhealthy)relationship.[/quote:a3889]

with a friend of yours?

Re: More Details...
 

[quote="Captain Wilkins":a76b0]OK, the details are as follows; (going mostly by Trippers questions)
*They went out for 2 years
*He liked her a whole heap
*I like her a whole heap
*He's a pretty good guy
*I think i'd be ok with us going out (My last gf broke up with me, then went out with another one of my mates after 2 days...baptism of fire oOo: . The Girl and I have waited 2 and a half months and counting.)
*Yes, he would do the same to me.

Also, as a matter of interest, he has recently gone quite...odd, and amongst other things, sworn off women entirely. Thus i think he would feel pity that i was in love more than anything ed:

so, yeah...that's my quandry[/quote:a76b0]

Well, then, in that case, why not. If you really like her, and he's really a good friend, then I don't see why he would mind too much... But that's just my opinion.

[quote="[DAS REICH]Unknown_Sniper":c8afa]What do you guys think about stealing gf's? I just recently hooked up with this girl and she was apperently in an 8 month (unhealthy)relationship.[/quote:c8afa]

I think you should wait until the current relationship ends. Otherwise, you would be "the other guy" and her current bf might decide that he doesn't like you stealling his girl, and you could end up in a lot of trouble.

[quote=mikesnacki]with a friend of yours?[/quote:7923c]

Not really a best friend. Just a kid I got along with and we talked every now and then. HAd a couple classes together etc.

Are you serious with this question? Go for the girl dude...you're not gonna marry the guy. The bottom line is the relationship is over so she's fair game. Any guy should understand this and accept it. If he doesn't, he's probably a jealous bastard and feels insecure.

Ughhh....How many friends do you have?

You have to show some tact in a sensitive situation like this.....People react differently to others, so some peoples 'rules' only apply to certain people.

Dont worry remember the other week when I said Friday was gonna be good.??? evil: Same girl....I dont really care too much about the kid. And she even says its a better relationship. I was just wondering if I had these...moral things

the thing is alot of relationships are on and off alot, so if you go in there after they break up itll be like you stole her away from him.
this brings up another interesting point, would you ever have sex with a guy girlfriend while theyre going out, and you know the guy and are sort of friends with him?

go for it...if this person was truly your friend, he should be happy for you.