Im not sure how to do this
 

There is this girl that works at FutureShop and im thinking about asking her out. Do you think its strange to ask a complete stranger out?
I have allways asked girls out that ive known, or a friend has known, I have never asked a complete stranger out before.

Im going to buy a couple of things on the weekend, and if she is there I might go for it. Should I just say "Would you like to go out for a drink sometime".
Im not to sure what to say, but I think just asking her to go out for a drink would be cool.

Have any of you guys ask a complete stranger out before? If so, what did you say to her?

get to know her a little better, what if shes already taken...you dont want any black eyes from buff boyfriends or DDOS attacks from any nerdy ones, now do you?

Yeah, it's kinda hard to ask a complete stranger out. The odds are against you. You should at least make your presence known before asking her out. Perhaps you should chat with her before so she at least gets to make an opinion about you. Perhaps go there earlier, purchase something and strike up a conversation. Feel her out...if she's receptive, then there's your answewr for later. If everything goes smooth, go back and chat with her some more then ask her to accompany you somewhere (drink, lunch...whatever)

You're not in an easy position....good luck.

Does she work a register?

If so, when you walk in just tell her you'd like to have a drink with her some time. Leave your business card and a pen in front of her and tell her if she's interested to write down her number and then do your shopping and check out with her. rock:

I was thinking about feeling her out, but wasnt sure on how to do that, or what to say since I dont know her and have nothing to go on. but the idea of returning to the store and not buying anything bothers me, and she does work the register, making this even harder, because if she worked somewhere else then I could just ask a question about something and then make some small talk too, with her working the register , I cant really take my time.

I've asked girls that I didn't know out right away. Maybe talked to them for about 2 minutes before hand. It works most of the time because I think most people don't want to say no because they'll hurt your feelings, unless you look like a total loser then the girls will say no because they fear for their safety.

Ask her if she wants to go for some coffee on her break or something.

Tell her she has a fine ass, and use ebonics. oOo: oOo:

I dont look like a total loser, so I guess I have that going for me biggrin:

have you smiled at each other or held a glance or
anything that makes you think she might be interested?

lol @ "feeling her out"...second date maybe cool:

[quote="Eight Ace":838ce]have you smiled at each other or held a glance or
anything that makes you think she might be interested?

lol @ "feeling her out"...second date maybe cool:[/quote:838ce]

No, I was in FutureShop like a week ago and thought she was hot, and I would like to get to know her, but I really didnt think of that stuff until I left the store. But since im going back, I think its my time to make some kind of move.

There's no harm in trying. And if you don't, you might regret it saying "man I could be banging that hot future shop biach". The worst she can say is no, and then you'd be in the same position you were in before you asked her. Just punch her if she says no then you'll feel better, but I bet she'll say yes. I know you are sexy.

as much as i would like to help you, asking for girl advice on THIS forum especially is pointless, you actually think most of us have lives? im lucky enough to have a gf...

speak for yourself bucko biggrin:

Dude, you are in a tough position. You walk a fine line of looking interested or looking like a stalker. Chicks like a guy with confidence and who are sure of themselves. If you go back, buy something small and wait until there are no other people in line so you won't be rushed. Then, mention that you noticed her last time you were in there. Tell her that she is very attractive and ask her if she's got a boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with that. If she's not interested, she'll lie and say yes and it saves you the trouble of asking. If she says no, that means she would be willing to go out with you so just ask. Don't lurk around scoping her out and making multiple visits. Just do it. Good luck. beer:

what i would do is try to start a decent convo with her, ask for her help with something digress a bit, etc. Then casually, but not forcefully, say something like, "hey if ur not busy tommorrow would u like to get some food," or something to that extent.

here's the "no fear of failure" way i used to use way back.........see a girl you like working somewhere.....jot down your name and number on the back of something (not business card, looks to slick) go up to her and say exactly the following......" look i noticed you and would like to take the time to ask you out but i'm running real late, gimmie a call if you're interested.." then put the name and number in her hand, again put the name and number in her hand. then split before she can react. the ball's in her court, no awkward silence or waiting for her to reply. it works or it doesn't . either way you don't feel like an idiot waiting for her response.

either that or just balls up and ask her. don't spend the summer buying a bunch of film to talk to a girl if you don't have a camera kinda deal. broads love guys that show confidense.

[quote="philadelphia killing mach":3e186]here's the "no fear of failure" way i used to use way back.........see a girl you like working somewhere.....jot down your name and number on the back of something (not business card, looks to slick) go up to her and say exactly the following......" look i noticed you and would like to take the time to ask you out but i'm running real late, gimmie a call if you're interested.." then put the name and number in her hand, again put the name and number in her hand. then split before she can react. the ball's in her court, no awkward silence or waiting for her to reply. it works or it doesn't . either way you don't feel like an idiot waiting for her response.

either that or just balls up and ask her. don't spend the summer buying a bunch of film to talk to a girl if you don't have a camera kinda deal. broads love guys that show confidense.[/quote:3e186]

very good idea, I like that. I think I might give that a try.

Buy something real cheap, and give her a $20 for it. When she's counting the change, and hands it to you, slide your hand in hers, and do it for as long as you can, make sure not to get a hard-on, and maybe she'll catch on. Take it from me, I know what Im doing.

[quote="Sgt. Duffy":ae217]Buy something real cheap, and give her a $20 for it, slide your hard-on in it. Take it from me, I know what Im doing.[/quote:ae217]

STFU

Dont even try until you get to know her./ chit chat. Baby steps.

just touch her boob or something, girls love that stuff

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oOo: How old are you? 21+ the business card thing works. Once you start getting into your 20s, chicks are starting to think long term (unless she's a slut, usually - not always, of course). So, business cards are usually associated with someone who has achieved some degree of success.

Anyway, I'm 4 for 5 on the business card ploy. Of those four, three of them were girls I'd only seen a few times in passing and to whom I'd never before spoken.

Just have to think like a chick.

Business card = successful/established = money = security for her = sex for you.

It's proven math.

When she asks how you want to pay, take your pants off. cool:

Confidence is priority 1, don't beat around the bush too much or anything, just have a plan and let fly. Remember you have absolutely nothing to lose. Its worse if you get to be friends with a chick you like, because then you don't want to fuck up a friendship.

[quote=1080jibber]No, I was in FutureShop like a week ago and thought she was hot, and I would like to get to know her, but I really didnt think of that stuff until I left the store. But since im going back, I think its my time to make some kind of move.[/quote:52670]

If she's hot she's probably taken.

Put a sample of your semen on a card and hand it to her.

Chicks also love it when you stick a goldfish in their pussy....... oOo: ...I dunno though, ask Antihero about that one....

Seriously though, the best way to put the moves on a girl is when you're feeling totally comfortable with yourself. Do it after work when you've had a few beers with the boys, maybe wearing a nice new shirt, looking like the money etc...

Confidence is no.1 - Chicks can smell that shit.

1080, a little morality play on this subject; if you will..........

Mike Damone: I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens.
1080: Well, naturally something happens. I mean, you put the vibe out to 30 million chicks, something is gonna happen.
Mike Damone: That's the idea, 1080. That's the attitude.
1080: The attitude?
Mike Damone: Yeah! The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude. Look at you: member of the honor roll, assistant to the assistant manager of the movie theater. I'm tellin' ya, 1080, if this girl can't smell your qualifications, then who needs her, right? First of all 1080, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, 1080. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

Cut to station wagon playing side two of Physical Graffitti.


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1080, the only real rule you need is simple.......don't think. if you try and think of what you're going to do/say, it's like premeditated murder.......something gets fucked up and butchered. do everything on the fly. if you say something wrong or something that offends her, just play it off like she didn't understand it. do NOT say "no , what i ment was..." or " i didn't mean it that way..." put her in the corner with the cover up of " no YOU didn't understand what i ment...."

also, do the coffee deal as apposed to the drinks. drinks are associated with trying to get laid. coffee is associated with talking and finding out about each other. sure you want her to ride your hobbyhorse but you don't want her thinking that up front. use your obvious nice guy attitude but don't be a pussy.


also, learn to eat pussy. you do that and do it right she'll do anything. cowboy up to the pillow buffet.

end up at the same party that she is at then try.

Re: Im not sure how to do this
 

Take a gun and rob the place. Then take her hostage and go for a coffee. (Read up on the "Stockholm Syndrome".)

Re: Im not sure how to do this
 

[quote="Mr.Buttocks":ef711]Take a gun and rob the place. Then take her hostage and go for a coffee. (Read up on the "Stockholm Syndrome".)[/quote:ef711]

true this; hell it worked for john mclaine and company in die hard.