Tripper ,

I'm sorry if my grammer disturbs you , I type as I would speak.

The American Civil War is in my familly , as with many other wars.

I'm not trying to be a prick man , I'm simply trying to explain my view in such a way as to help you understand it.
I'm also trying to be as considerate and polite as possible. All reserch I have done on the subject has been of my own investigation and the handed down words of those who were there.

Dont get upset with me because I dont think you are acting like an adult , it has nothing to do with what we were talking about.