[Arkan]

Yup, you guys come up with the best advice. Listen, i'm thinking of quitting my job, leaving my family, and joining the circus. Any advice on how i can accomplish this ?

Pyro, bottom line is this. You're going there for a night, right? If so, make sure you bring something thoughtful for her and her kid. Once there, give the kid some attention and build a lil' friendship with him/her. Take them both out to dinner or some shit like that and try to include the kid in your plans. After the kid goes to sleep, i bet the girl will tell you she admires you for the way you treat her and the kid (big points here). Just remember to be yourself and not a phony. I once dated this hot girl with a 2yr old. The kid loved me because i gave her attention (unlike her dip shit father) and the mother probably spent more time with me than she wanted to due to the kid. The reason we never made it together was because i was involved with another girl and she knew all about it. She hung in there for her own reasons but having the kid like me helped.

Don't listen to some asswipes here who never saw a pussy up close. A girl with a kid already isn't necessarily a bad thing. Hang with her and you may learn a thing or two.