[Arkan]

Fluff, my advice is this.

Ditch the cock blocking friends and either get a good wingman or go solo. When i went out, i had the best wingman. We had a rule. If the one guy is hooking up, help him anyway you can. There were times i had to ditch my ego and talk to fatty so he'd have a chance at her friend. The classic example of this was one night in a club called Chevys'. He was hooking up with a smokin chick but her friend was totally in the way. Ever see the movie "A Bronx Tale"? Remember "Coffeecakes"? Well, this was the female version of him. I had to dance with this fugly chick so he could get laid. It worked. Thats what a good wingman does.

He paid me back by giving me the keys to his car one night whilst i was hooking up. He sensed it and fetched a ride home from some guy he knew at the club.

And if you can't get a good wingman, go solo. I used to do that when he wasn't available.

I remember getting cocked blocked one night by some guy i used to work with. He asked to meet me at a club because he had a few girls that would be there for us so i thought "Hey, this could be good". I get there and after awhile, i'm hooking up hard with a sweet blonde. He comes barreling up and wants to dance with her. Me thinking thats it's one of his friends i say sure, so they dance a bit. Now, i can see she's getting a lil' annoyed and when he goes to get a drink, i ask her whats wrong. She says my friend is a pain in the ass. I say to her "but i thought he was your friend, thats why i let him dance with you". She said she doesn't know him, he's just a friend of the girl she came with. I told her, "don't worry, when he returns, i'll make him go away" Sure as shit, i intercept him as he's walking toward her and i say "look dude, the girl was having a good time with me. Go find another girl...this one is going home with me". He was cool and let it go from there. At that point, i realized the value of a good wingman.