[tomxtr]

Dude, you went above and beyond the call of duty. You sound like a really nice guy so I'll try to avoid dressing you down. However, you need to nip this shit in the bud. I'll be honest with you, I'm not sure I'd do all the shit you did for a chick who was paying me with sexual favors or my wife for that matter. What you've got to understand is that it is not always in your best interest to worry about who likes you and who doesn't. It sounds like through all the shit that this asshole put you through, that you are worried that you'll come off looking like the bad guy. Fuck that. Cut your ties with this douche bag. You helped him move, lent him money, bought him dinner, gave him rides on your day off, etc. He should be offering money to you. You shouldn't have to ask for it. Fuck that shit. Don't have anything to do with him. And for God's sake, don't get in the habit of letting your boss tell you to do shit that isn't part of your job description. As a matter of fact, submit an expense report for the mileage at the rate of $.405/mile. And the other guys are right, when your boss told you to go pick him up you should at the very least been on the clock.