[bukdez]

this is pretty intense guys...

a lot of this stems from the fact that many of you (us) have been here a while and some of you guys interact on a daily basis - in some way a certain level of comfort develops that inspires people to cross a line with an insult without thinking of the actual impact of the statement...

im pretty confident that judas' remark wasnt intended to be taken seriously nor was any real harm meant - but, i can also see how nyck could easily take this statement to be serious and offensive... i dont really have any suggestions on how to settle this disagreement but i think that both of you are probably sorry for what was said and how you reacted, maybe that, and the amount of time that you guys have "known" each other, is enough...



ps, i always figured judas to be more into boys...