pessimism

anti · 10-02-2006, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Tripper

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Originally Posted by CoMaToSe

Well I have a lot of the problems you have, that really affect my social life. Every social encounter I go into, I automatically assume the worst, that this person is not going to like me, or these people arent going to like me. So then I either: a) avoid these people altogether, so they dont like me, or b) try too hard to get them to like me, which generally leads to people not liking me.

I dont know how to 'be myself' around people because I have no faith in who I am, and it is a very small group of close friends who know the 'real' me.

So here, as a result, I have no close friends. Nobody I feel comfortable as me. SO now I'm pretty socially isolated, and have lost the motivation to just DO stuff.

My relationship with my parents is falling down, I talk to my mom on the phone and just wait for the conversation to end. I stopped working out and eating well. Im scared to death of gaining back my weight. Im losing my true self.

This is something totally different - You can't compare your lack of social skills to anti's feelings of general negativity. Ridiculous. You fat fatty.

haha, yeah trips right coma. sorry man but that sounds pretty serious, linkin park serious. i'm just down about a girl, you sound like you've got a few issues though. i wonder why? oh yeah, because you contribute with nothing but petty arguements against the other retards on the fourm; and for that we make fun of you. i don't think that's going to do you any good with your self-esteem issues. find someone that shares your interest and get off the internet; it helps, or drink bleach. it's your call.