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Originally Posted by Arkan

Man, you guys give the shittiest advice. This is what Arkan would do:

Give her a call and see if she wants to hang. Just because you go out with her a few times and get your groove on, doesn't mean you want to marry her. I'm sure she needs to get out every now and again and enjoy the company of a man. If it turns out you just like her as a sex friend, treat the relationship that way. She'll realize what the relationship is based on.....there really is no need to even discuss it. Oh, one more thing. Try not to get involved with "family" things with them. Give her room when it comes to her kid. She'll appreciate that.

So, to sum things up. Just be her "outlet" so to speak, nothing more.

for once i agree with arkan on the field of women (somewhat). theres nothing wrong with hanging out, she probably needs a male companion both hanging out and in her vagina. if you guy start hanging out alot, or just fucking alot; let her know what's up. dont let her assume, because you never know what could come of that (maybe she thinks its getting serious, and then shes gonna get hurt when she realizes you dont feel the same and was lead on in her mind). ntohing wrong with hanging out with her, as long as you both know what's going on between you two.