dilemma - Page 2

Doctor Duffy · 07-07-2006, 01:32 PM

Go get a mail-order bride, that always works. If she's got a kid and divorced the dude, you're probably gonna be having to deal with the dude. And she might just dump you too, anyway.

Pyro · 07-07-2006, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Bucknub

Id say no

in highschool (grade 12) I had this chick (not that attractive) Craving my Cock everytime I talked to her, all she wanted was Dick, I never got involved with her and never fucked her, because well Im gay.

no really. it was because she already had a kid and I just knew what kind of person she was, She was VERY clingy, she'd always call my ass basically for a booty call. ME a booty call! I knew if I got involved with her I would have to play a role as the babies daddy in some way.

Anyway, She moved away, and the last I heard of her was from a friend and he told me she has ANOTHER kid with a DIFFERENT daddy. whata fuckin slut LOL

thank god I got the fuck outta that one.

You should of just tapped the shit and then ignored her...if she wanted your cock so bad...you could of forced her to do like every precaution a girl can do...and if you still ended up making her have a kid...tell her to take you on maury.

Ninty...I say...hang out again and see what happens...keep the kid shit on the down low...and if it looks like you're there for a daddy figure/financial support...kill her.

Nyck · 07-07-2006, 02:01 PM

sluts like that are funny as shit this bitch I used to work with was like your chick craving the cock. But I knew something wasnt right with her
I saw her a year later after I left. Im like hows it goin

her response "i got a kid now"
me: "LOL"

1080jibber · 07-07-2006, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Proteus

Why would you have to pay child support?

child support laws are different in Canada than they are in the US, you dont have to be married the person to pay child support in Canada if you break up with that person. depending on how long the relationship is and if the child see you as a father figure

Bucknub · 07-07-2006, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyro

You should of just tapped the shit and then ignored her...if she wanted your cock so bad...you could of forced her to do like every precaution a girl can do...and if you still ended up making her have a kid...tell her to take you on maury.

Ninty...I say...hang out again and see what happens...keep the kid shit on the down low...and if it looks like you're there for a daddy figure/financial support...kill her.

well, Im not sure if you know of that girl Shawn, It was Violet.

but now that I look back, MAYBE it wouldnt have hurt me to get a peice of that, I mean it basically was FREE pussy. would have made my life a lot easier rather than fighting for it like a dirty dog on the street like I do with that chick from work

Bucknub · 07-07-2006, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by 1080jibber

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Originally Posted by Proteus

Why would you have to pay child support?

child support laws are different in Canada than they are in the US, you dont have to be married the person to pay child support in Canada if you break up with that person.

I think what he means is (ninty), that if you do start dating, he would have to spend time with the child, and buy him/her the odd thing (toys, clothes, ect) and if she's stumped for cash then he'll be the the first one on her speed dial to call.

he wont actually HAVE to pay child support

gtboys34 · 07-07-2006, 02:31 PM

only 1 kid?

anti · 07-07-2006, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Arkan

Man, you guys give the shittiest advice. This is what Arkan would do:

Give her a call and see if she wants to hang. Just because you go out with her a few times and get your groove on, doesn't mean you want to marry her. I'm sure she needs to get out every now and again and enjoy the company of a man. If it turns out you just like her as a sex friend, treat the relationship that way. She'll realize what the relationship is based on.....there really is no need to even discuss it. Oh, one more thing. Try not to get involved with "family" things with them. Give her room when it comes to her kid. She'll appreciate that.

So, to sum things up. Just be her "outlet" so to speak, nothing more.

for once i agree with arkan on the field of women (somewhat). theres nothing wrong with hanging out, she probably needs a male companion both hanging out and in her vagina. if you guy start hanging out alot, or just fucking alot; let her know what's up. dont let her assume, because you never know what could come of that (maybe she thinks its getting serious, and then shes gonna get hurt when she realizes you dont feel the same and was lead on in her mind). ntohing wrong with hanging out with her, as long as you both know what's going on between you two.

Doctor Duffy · 07-07-2006, 02:48 PM

Ninty is a woman. rock:

ninty · 07-07-2006, 03:11 PM

yeha, i mean more like what buck is saying. i mean, i know im not going to be paying for her kid and all, it just makes a relationship harder. im not really looking for a relationship either. i was just a little concerned if i'm making the effort, she might take that the wrong way and think i want to get into a relationship, and normally thats ok, but again, the kid compicates things.

my friends are saying i should employ the "catch and release" program in this situation. I probably won't take her on the pub crawl, but i'll call her and we'll go stampede it up or something this week. i'll see how she reacts and if shes clinging on, i'll get rid of her, but if she gets the idea, then it might be a good setup. i guess i'll play it by ear.

this week is going to be tough for me. up every day at 6am and i'll be out most nights till probably around 2 because of the stampede. one huge ass city wide drunk fest.

thanks for the advice and opinions guys. its cool i actually got some thoughtful responses. rock: