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But because the death of something doesn't register (and I realize emotionally the hell she went through - I feel that shit to this day), does that cheapen the act itself? It is a violent and horrid thing, and there is nothing rosy or self-empowering about it. As much as you hate seeing "abortion is murder", I hate seeing "its all on the woman. 100%. End of story". Both statements are so close minded and so self-defeating. Seeing aborted babies or even reading about these techniques, these are probably the only thing I will ever cry about because it is so damn sad that THIS is the best we can do.