[Bleuachdu]

There is some specific actionscript for controlling media. If you aren't that good at flash, or aren't a programmer, it might not be the simplest thing in the world.

If you really want to make a flash video player like that site, you have a lot of work to do.

--EDIT--

FFS - plz use google; this is the first result of the first search I did:

[url:ddb57]http://www.jeroenwijering.com/?item=Flash_Video_Player[/url:ddb57]