[elstatec]

well if they want to jam often or with like within an hours notice it is a bit hard to if you would be so far away so maybe if they have some aspirations then they followed on with it. Otherwise than the behind your back thing thats probaly because its one of those things people would have a problem admitting/telling a friend. Will be sour when you get back and you are not "part" of the new band , but to be honest worse things could happen.