[butch]

Ok, Here's the plan you need to go with. First of all you have to be a reasonable looking guy to begin with. This will work 8 out 10 times. Your sittin in the club with say 2 of your friends . You pick out a target and have one of your friends go talk to her like every other swingin dick in the place is doin. He gets shot down like the rest.

Then the next guy from the same table takes his shot, again fails. Now she figures your probably next. She sees that 2 of the 3 have approached her thinking you'll do the same. Shes actually waitting for it so she can shot you down as well. You stay at the table, She will actually after a time look at you to see why you havent come over yet. When she does you smile, turn your head away and continue talking to your friends.

Now this why this works:

Every guy in the place has tried to pick her up with the same tired lines she probably hears every weekend. The same shit every night. You already have her attention by being the only one at the table that didnt try a line.

She starts to think about WHY didnt he come over. He smiled at me yet stayed at the table. You are now set apart from every other guy in the place. Noy being able to get past why you didnt come over, SHE COMES OVER TO YOU TO SEE WHAT YOUR DEAL IS.

Where it goes from there is up to you. This would work great with your asshat friends, Let them both take there shot and get smoked and you end up takin the gal home. The great thing is they wont even relise how the hell you ended up the winner.

This will work ok with 2 other guys but 3 is better. The more guys from the same table who take a shot makes her more courious why you didnt.

THE HOTTER THE GIRL THE BETTER THIS WORKS!!!! She thinks to herself, Whats this guy got going on that makes him not come over??? She'll be forced by her own ego to come and find out!!!

This is not a bullshit theroy, Ive done it a lot when i was younger. Im an old married guy now. Times may change but hot women and their egos always remain the same and its their ego that will put them at your table 8 out of 10 times.


As you said in your post, standin at the bar lookin desperate is fatal!!!! That is the act of a desperate man. Even if the bartender is female SHE wont even talk to you!!! lol

You guys give this try and let me know how it did. This is one of the best kept secrets for pickin up women ever disclosed in public!!! rock: