[Madmartagen]

if you dont want to be with a woman with kids, then you should let her know thats what you feel. if you want to keep seeing her and dont mind the kids then go for it. i dont know canadian law, but if you arent the parent, i doubt you will be paying child support.

just be straight and honest, she may just be looking for some guy to hang out with and not a dad for her kid. when moms start dating, they usually keep the kid away from view for their sake, not necessarily yours.